My husbands opinions are not mine. After almost 18 years with my husband, I find that people think that we speak in one voice and think the same. Hello… we do not. I can’t control what he does or says. Also he does stuff that I do not agree with. We have different religious beliefs and outlooks… we always have. Maybe other women say things and the can speak for their spouse. But that is not the way it works in our house and never has. I can make him do anything and never will.  I respect his right to have his own opinions, because I should and he does the same for me.  I wish others would understand he has a voice and it is not mine.   If you want him to do something ask him not me.

We are different and that is why we work.