How to stay calm while doing homework: I was recently selected to write a post about Glade® Wax Melts and how I use scents to relax, by #CollectiveBias and #MeltsBestFeelings. My biggest issue with trying to relax lately has been keeping my family calm during homework time. If you have a child in middle school, then you know that it can be a particularly stressful time of day. With the move to middle school, a child’s daily education goes from having one or a small group of teachers in elementary, to having multiple teachers in middle school. Many of the teachers are assigning homework unaware of what is due in other subjects, causing a child to learn time management and multitasking. So it is a “Welcome to the real world kid” for your middle school child. My family has been struggling with this transitional time in my son’s educational development. My friend told me to hold strong through middle school, which will make high school easier when the grades really count. I wanted to share tips with you for keeping your cool and staying “zen” during your child’s development into an independent high school student.
How to Stay Calm while doing Homework with a PreTeen:
- Remove all distractions: TV, toys, magazines, and other siblings
- Make sure the work area is well lit
- Make sure your child uses the restroom.
- Do make sure your child has had a snack or provide a snack/drink to be eaten as they accomplish the tasks
- Us the child’s daily planer from school and check it. Also ask if there is a Rubric (which is a the assignments criteria requirements)
- Working in a Common Area: Don’t allow you child to retreat to bedroom to do assignments. Homework in the bedroom is a privilege which must be earned.
- Don’t make work area too comfortable: Avoid couches and beds .. Preteens are growing so they require a lot of sleep, so the area is to comfortable they will fall asleep.
- Avoid homework escalation, stay calm and reminding them doing once correctly is quicker than doing the task twice
- I recommend staying in the room to keep the child on task. Don’t move and clean.. it can be distracting. Try a station ay task like Knitting, computer time, and make this some slow down time for you while being present for your child.
- Get a snack for yourself or try tea.
- If possible sit read a book. Which shows reading is good.
- Use a calming smell such as a Glade® melts to relax and ease the tension that can come from a child unavoidable homework.
Smells can make you relax. When I am using Glade® wax melts they set the tone of a room. Just by adding a smell of scent from a Glade® Wax Melt it can change the mood of a stressful environment in to a comforting easier space. I started using Glades products to make my own workspace more enjoyable. I find I feel more creative and inspired when all my senses are involved in my creative process. So why would I not add Glade that to my sons space.
While visiting Shoprite to purchase my Glade® Wax Melts. I really enjoyed smelling all the new fragrance option. My favorites were the new fragrances from the Glade® limited Edition spring Collection including Live Loud and Lift Off. I choose the Lift Off and Hawaiian Breeze – both smells transform me to a tropical warm climate.
While shopping Shoprite, I found the Glade® Wax Melts really easily. They were in the center of the store, at the beginning of the isle. The Glade® Wax Melts refills were located on the shelf together and the melt burner was the shelf below them. I appreciate the fact that Glade® Wax Melts has no open flame and a light to tell you when it is on.
The good thing is the Glade® Wax Melts are on sale at Shoprite over the next few weeks:
2/9-2/15: Limited Edition Spring Collection at the Everyday Low Price of $2.99
2/16-2/22: Buy 5 Glade products, get $3 off your next shopping order, wax melts on Price Plus feature at $2.99
I hope these tips help you to easy up the stress in you life so take a few moments read a book and plus in a Glade® Wax Melt Warmer with the Fragrance for your choice to relax all your senses. Just think someday your kids will have children and they too will have to conquer middle school homework. Have fun being Zen.
As a teacher I led a homework club and loved working with the kids in that way. Now, however, I dread the battles of working with my boys on those very same tasks. Parent-child power struggles are sure to come. Love your tips…especially the modeling reading one.
Thanks I like to say it is getting better than several month ago. It is always a struggle.
These are great tips! I love the idea of setting the mood with the wax melts. I will have to keep them in mind when we get to that point
Thanks Caitlin for stopping by. The Glade Wax smell great
These work for any young child, I’m sure. I need to really get my act together for my youngest, who has daily homework, and work through these tips to help her!
Gina, I hope the tips help. It is homework for us is something we can never rest on, the older he gets.
Helpful tips – thank you for sharing!
Um, I need homework help for preschool haha! I’m sure getting a teen to do work is about as easy as getting my preschooler to sit still to do hers. Serenity now!!!
These are great tips and some even apply to working with a 7 year old!! Patience. Patience. Patience.
Lauryn, I hate to say it does not get easier as they get older. I wish you luck and persistence with homework.
Yes, Yes, Yes. Cutting out the wrong types of distractions is so important. Having a snack there helps too!
As a former middle school teacher, I totally get it! I had so many colleagues give entirely too much homework. Glad you’re achieving ZEN! in an otherwise stressful situation. #client
Thanks for these tips, I can attest to the tips about not doing it in a place that’s too comfortable and not leaving the room. Mine gets off task as soon as I leave the room. These are things I know, but definitely needed to be reminded, as I get lax about them both.
Also, love the tip about setting the mood with a smell. I could use a calming scent, my patience is VERY low when helping with homework and I feel so bad about it.
The only thing I would change is that she needs music to do homework. I was and am still the same way. I work better with music, it somehow centers me. When I have no noise, my mind is EVERYWHERE.
Thanks again for sharing!