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Pa Ballet Nutcracker Review- Making a Day of it in Philly

girls with the sugar plum fairyMy Review of  Pa Ballet Nutcracker:  I took my sister, daughter,and niece.  What a great da,  it took me right back to when my sister and I were little and my grandparents would take us to see the Ballet.  Our Day stared with  girls getting  dressed up in their holiday best for the occasion,  they were going to the ballet (fancy as my daughter would say).    My daughter planed for weeks for this day. I kept thinking “as vision of sugar plums danced in there head”.

We arrive early to pick our tickets,  so we stop across the street to get Shirley Temples (ginger ale w/ a cherry) for the girls.  Just like our grandparents use to do for my sister and I when we were kids.  The girls felt so grown us to have a drink with us in the fancy hotel prior to the show.   The hotel was filled with other little girls excited for the show,  the air was electric in anticipation.

We walked across the street and entered the PA Academy of Music.  The music hall is grand and elegant (fancy).  We stopped and took a picture with the Sugar Plum Fairy- the girls swooned.  The Pa Ballet is taking the photos  with your choice of he SugarPlum Fairy or the Mouse king for $20 for one of the ballet characters or $30 for both and of course you can use your own camera as well to get an extra photos once you paid. The proceeds of the photos benefit the Pa ballet,  you can pick up the photo during intermission or  after the performance.

Pa academy hallWe were fortunate  to sit on the lower level for this performance. My daughter and niece were so excited as we entered the performance hall.  The Academy of music is gorgeous and glittery gold. Once the ballet started the girl sat entranced.. loving every second. From the tree growing, and the ballerina dance on there toes. It was amazing the costumes where fabulous.  The children that preformed were enchanting.   The music enveloped you and made you want to dance with grace and posie.  Both my sister and I had tears in our eyes as the Sugerplum Fairy danced with her prince.  You could feel the love, she feels for ballet as she spun. Lovely and stunning.

Photos are not allowed during the performance, so you have to see it in person.

If you have not seen a Ballet this is a great one to start with.  The PA Ballet Nutcracker is lively and runs at a great pace to keep the children attention and you will love the music and costumes. The Pa Ballet does a spectacular job.  This was my second time seeing it I took my son when he was 9 –  he loved it too,  so lets not forget those boys.

We purchase ornament for the girls for $15 of a dancing Carla at the souvenir stand in the ballet.

PA Ballet Nutcracker Tickets are still on sale and some start at $20 (when I went with my son we sat in the upper seats he still loved it – also you can bring binoculars)

Here is the girls reviews after the performance;

I would make a day of going to see the PA Ballets Nutcracker.  Philadelphia is so alive with the holiday spirit.

After the performance we did go for dinner Olive Garden is around the corner on Chestnut Street off Broad street . Then a quick walk to  headed to Macys (one block in on chestnut, aka old Wanamaker building) to see/hear the Wanamaker organ and light show runs every hour on the hour. Girls loved it.. the store shoppers  stops and watches the lights for the 10 minute,  Freemacys wanamaker christmas lights

The afterwards we headed up to Macys 3rd floor to see the Charles Dickens Village  “Twas the night be for Christmas” exhibit,   FREE  open till 7pm  (also you do walk through the holiday dept at Macys when heading to Dickens Village exhibit so you can always pick up a souvenir there as well).macys dickens village

End of the Dickens Village which can end with you meeting Santa.  if you want the picture  staring  5×7″ picture was $16.95- or use you own camera Free  philadelphia macy santa posing  with little girls Enjoy you holiday and explore all the culture and fun philly has to offer.

Disclosure:  I received the tickets from the PA ballet.  But the opinions in this post are my own.

 

Things to do in Philadelphia Area for the Christmas Holiday

longwood gardensSo for year my family has done many things around Philadelphia for a Christmas Tradition:  Here is a complete list of things to do for the holidays Christmas  Philadelphia, Lancaster, New Hope and Atlantic City for your Family to start a Holiday Christmas Tradition of your own.

Philadelphia Christmas Holiday:

  • From November 20-January 6, visitors to historic Pennypacker Mills enjoy guided tours of the richly decorated mansion. And on select Saturdays, they can learn how to make Christmas wreaths and see how Victorian candy was made, among other activities. 5 Haldeman Road, Schwenksville, (610) 287-9349, historicsites.montcopa.org/pennypackermills
  • A Philadelphia tradition since 1956, the Christmas Light Show at Macy’s in Center City illuminates a large wall inside the Wanamaker building, a National Historic Landmark, with almost 100,000 LED lights and finishes with sounds from the Wanamaker Organ, November 23-December 31. 1300 Market Street, (215) 241-9000, wanamakerorgan.com
  • At Pottsgrove Manor from November 23-January 6, guided Twelfth Night Tours enable visitors to experience the historic mansion when it’s dressed in its traditional English holiday best. Then, on December 9, costumed 18th-century “residents” lead candlelight holiday tours through the manor. 100 W. King Street, Pottstown, (610) 326-4014, historicsites.montcopa.org/pottsgrovemanor
  • Old City gets into the holiday spirit with Deck the Alley, an annual holiday tradition on Elfreth’s Alley, the nation’s oldest residential street. Taking place on December 1, the event gives visitors a chance to explore the historic homes all decked out for the holiday season, tour the museum or enjoy the sounds of carolers. 2nd Street & Elfreth’s Alley, (215) 574-0560, elfrethsalley.org
  • Every year, the East Fairmount Park Mansions (Laurel Hill, Lemon Hill, Mount Pleasant, Strawberry Mansion, Sweetbriar and Woodford) are adorned in holiday finery for yuletide tours. Visitors can wander through one or all of these architectural masterpieces the first two weekends of December (December 1-2 and December 8-9). Mount Pleasant and Woodford will also be open most days from December 11 to December 31. (215) 763-8100, fairmountpark.org
  • History buffs get into the spirit of the season in their own way when they witness Washington Crossing the Delaware River, a free, annual reenactment staged at 1:00 p.m. on Christmas Day at Washington Crossing Historic Park. A day of family-friendly activities accompanies the full dress rehearsal on December 9 beginning at 11:00 a.m. Routes 32 & 532, Washington Crossing, (215) 493-4076, ushistory.org/washingtoncrossing
  • The holidays go red, white and green at Longwood Gardens during A Longwood Gardens Christmas, taking place Thanksgiving Day through January 6. Visitors can wander through half a million glowing lights to see thousands of poinsettias, vibrantly decorated trees and dancing fountains, which brighten the gardens’ vast grounds and conservatory. 1001 Longwood Road,
    Kennett Square, (610) 388-1000, longwoodgardens.org
  • Morris Arboretum debuts its Holiday Garden Railway display on November 24. This miniature winter wonderland amid the evergreens features a quarter-mile of model-train track with twinkling lights, seven loops and tunnels with 15 different rail lines, cable cars, bridges and trains that cruise past scaled replicas of historic monuments and Philadelphia-area landmarks made from all-natural materials. 100 E. Northwestern Avenue, (215) 247-5777, morrisarboretum.org
  • Linvilla Orchards looks more like the North Pole from December 1-24. The decorated farm features a Christmasland display and petting zoo, while the market section is stocked with all-things holiday and crafts for younger guests. Santa makes an appearance every Saturday and Sunday in December, and on select afternoons, visitors can sing along during Caroling Hayrides, marshmallow roasting and apple cider. 137 W. Knowlton Road, Media,
    (610) 876-7116, linvilla.com
  • The traditional German Christmas Market runs from November 3-December 31 at Byers’ Choice. In the village-like setting, shoppers can find gingerbread houses, advent calendars and handcrafted toys, plus workshops, live animals and a nativity scene. On December 15-16, guests can also enjoy A Christmas Carol, a one-man show performed by Charles Dickens’ great-great grandson, Gerald Charles Dickens. 4355 County Line Road, Chalfont, (215) 822-6700, byerschoice.com
  • Sesame Place Very Furry Christmas– Park is open 1-8 most weekends after Thanksgiving – and a full week during the Dec 25-31.  The parades and characters dressed up in holiday attire and the park is filled with lights.  Themed holiday shows and more.
  • Please Touch Museum® presents the Enchanted Colonial Village Supported by The Philadelphia Foundation, with intricately restored Colonial scenes depicting the Bakery, Blacksmith Shop, Toymaker, Tailor Shop, Watchmaker and others. Open November 16-
    January 2, the village first made its home at the Lit Brothers department store from 1962
    until 1975. 4231 Avenue of the Republic, (215) 581-3181, pleasetouchmuseum.orgnutcracker

Philadelphia Area Christmas Shows

  • The Philadelphia Orchestra Saturday, December 1, 2012  11:30 am Verizon Hall  Deck the halls and come-a-caroling with The Philadelphia Orchestra for a festive celebration filled with your favorite sounds of the season, sing-alongs, and of course, Santa! Kick your holidays off right with music from The Nutcracker, Sleigh Ride, and ’Twas the Night Before Christmas, narrated by award-winning storyteller Charlotte Blake Alston. You never know what surprises may appear, so jingle all the way to Verizon Hall and don’t miss out!

  • New this year! Pennsylvania Ballet is proud to partner with The Salvation Army. At performances of George Balanchine’s The Nutcracker™, audience members are invited to bring a new, unwrapped toy for a child in need. Once collected at the theater, these toys will be distributed to families across the Delaware Valley throughout the holiday season and beyond.

    Starting at just $20, tickets to all 23 performances of George Balanchine’s The Nutcracker™ at the Academy of Music are on sale now. Tickets are available online at paballet.org, by phone at 215.893.1999, and in person at the Kimmel Center Box Office  Check out my full Ballet post

  •  Rockin’ Ever After Disney on Ice performance in Philadelphia at the Wells Fargo Center Disney on Ice tour
  • Abington Presbyterian Church Christmas by Candlelight service.  Abington Presbyterian Church is one of the oldest churches in North America. The Preformance has  3 choirs from children through adults.  Plus a full orchestra.   Free performance.  Dec 16th 4:30 & 7:00
  • The Keswick Theatre keeps the holiday season humming all month long. The lineup includes: Rockin’ Holiday Celebration with The Duprees, Shirley Alston Reeves and many others, December 1; The Pink Martini Holiday Show, featuring vocalist China Forbes singing classics from Hollywood musicals from the1940s and 50s, December 2; The Irish Tenors’ holiday celebration, December 6; Home for the Holidays, starring beloved singer/songwriter Judy Collins and legendary songwriter Jimmy Webb, December 7; Vegas icon Wayne Newton, performing classic hits and holiday favorites, December 11; Manhattan Transfer Holiday Show, December 13; Philly Nutt Crak-Up, a fun and funny holiday dance spoof, December 15.
    291 N. Keswick Avenue, Glenside, (215) 572-7650, keswicktheatre.com
  • This year’s holiday calendar at the Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts, the Merriam Theater and the Academy of Music is chock-full of old-fashioned favorites. Highlights include: Holiday Spectacular by the Philadelphia Orchestra, December 1; The Rock School’s Nutcracker 1776, December 1; A Celtic Christmas at the Kimmel, December 2; and Holiday POPS! by Peter Nero and the Philly Pops, December 7-22. Kimmel, Broad & Spruce Streets; Academy, Broad & Locust Streets; Merriam, 250 S. Broad Street, (215) 790-5800, kimmelcenter.org
  • Those in the mood for a magical holiday musical can stop by the Walnut Street Theatre, the oldest theater in the country, to catch a one-hour, kid-friendly adaptation of Charles Dickens’ classic A Christmas Carol, December 1-22. Also on stage, Plaid Tidings, featuring 1950s tunes and holiday gems, November 20-December 30. 825 Walnut Street, (215) 574-3550, walnutstreettheatre.org
  • It’s year five for Philadelphia’s high-tech holiday show, The Comcast Holiday Spectacular, at the 58-story Comcast Center. Onlookers stand in awe of the original holiday imagery set to the music of a 64-piece orchestra and shown on the world’s largest four-millimeter LED screen in the building’s lobby. The free 15-minute show occurs at the top of the hour, 10:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. (except 5:00 p.m. on weekdays), from Thanksgiving to January 1. 17th Street & John F. Kennedy Boulevard, visitphilly.com/comcast
  • A Brandywine Christmas takes over the Brandywine River Museum from November 23-January 6. On view: a display of trees featuring “critters” and all-things natural, a Victorian dollhouse, a model railroad with more than 2,000 feet of track and exquisitely crafted jewelry inspired by Andrew Wyeth’s paintings. Handcrafted natural critter ornaments made by volunteers are on sale December 1-2. U.S. Route 1, Chadds Ford, (610) 388-2700, brandywinemuseum.org
  • Starting on November 23, the picturesque Franklin Square lights up to brighten the season—literally—and provides a holiday backdrop for visits with Santa and Mrs. Claus on select weekends. 6th & Race Streets, (215) 629-4026, historicphiladelphia.org
  • On December 15 at 5:00 p.m., the Independence Seaport Museum hosts the third-annual Parade of Lights. Children can visit with Santa, then the event moves outdoors, so that revelers can watch lighted and decorated tugboats and other vessels float along the Delaware River. 211 S. Columbus Boulevard, (215) 413-8655, phillyseaport.org
  • During the Penn Museum’s Peace Around the World: Passport to Cultures on December 2, visitors receive an itinerary that takes them to galleries where speakers share holiday traditions of their home countries. The afternoon also features international music and dancing, children’s choirs, exotic face painting, balloon art and crafts. 3260 South Street, (215) 898-4000, penn.museum
  • Fried potato pancakes take center stage at the Gershman Y’s annual Latkepalooza, where local restaurants whip up their take on the classic for guests to nosh. Music and games add to the Hanukkah fun on December 9. 401 S. Broad Street, (215) 545-4400, gershmany.org
  • A tongue-in-cheek twist on Jewish Christmas activities (going to movies and eating Chinese food), the Gershman Y presents its annual Moo Shu Jew Show, an evening of stand-up comedy and an eight-course dinner, at Chinatown’s Ocean Harbor Restaurant on December 24.     1023 Race Street, (215) 545-4400, gershmany.org
  • On December 25, the holiday spirit goes beyond Christmas at the National Museum of American Jewish History, which presents its annual day of family fun with music, games, children’s activities and more. 101 S. Independence Mall East, (215) 923-3811, nmajh.org
  • The African American Museum in Philadelphia hosts a Kwanzaa Celebration for the whole family with jam-packed afternoons of celebratory activities, December 29-30. There’s free admission for those who bring a canned-good donation for Philabundance. 701 Arch Street,
    (215) 574-0380, aampmuseum.org

For more information about travel to Philadelphia, visit visitphilly.com or uwishunu.com,

New Hope Christmas:

  • Peddler’s Village welcomes the holiday season with the Grand Illumination Celebration, Friday, November 16, 2012, 6 p.m.-9 p.m. The Annual Gingerbread House Competition and Display also opens on November 16.
  • At 6:15 pm, Santa Claus “switches on” the holiday light display throughout Peddler’s Village. In one breathtaking instant, the Village is transformed into a holiday wonderland with one million jewel-colored lights and glistening reindeer. Savor a cup of complimentary apple cider, heated in an old fashioned kettle, with marshmallows toasted over an open fire and listen to musicians and local choirs perform holiday favorites throughout the evening. Linger at the Annual Gingerbread House Competition and Display in the Village Gazebo as the sweet smells and whimsical creations return you to childhood. Admission is free and the display will be open during shopping hours through January 5, 2013. After the ceremony, bring the children to Giggleberry Fair to share secret wish lists with Santa. Santa continues to entertain childrenat his indoor workshop at Giggleberry Fair, from November 16 through December 23, each Friday through Sunday.
  • Kick off your holiday shopping at the Merchants’ Open House Weekend with refreshments in each shop and something for everyone on your gift list, November 16-18. The Village’s extended holiday shopping hours are November 16 through December 30, Monday through Sunday, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. and 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. on Sunday.christmas decor

Lancaster Christmas:

  • The Night Before Christmas Train New this year, the Night Before Christmas Train runs on three Friday evenings during the holiday season, November 30, December 7 and 14. This very unique train recreates the excitement and anticipation of Christmas Eve. A reader dressed in a Victorian nightshirt and cap will read Clement Clarke Moore’s classic poem, The Night Before Christmas, as passengers enjoy cookies and milk as the train rolls along. After the train ride, children are also treated to storybook readings of holiday classics aboard our Caboose (stationary) and visitors of all ages can enjoy a ride aboard the Tinsel Trolley, a self-propelled motor car.
  • In the spirit of the season, kids may come dressed in pajamas and bring along a new pair of pjs to donate to Water Street Ministries’ families in need. Just by attending this event, your participation will help men, women and children who are in need in our community. $5.00 from every ticket will support the work of Water Street Ministries. 
  • Event Details: http://www.strasburgrailroad.com/the-night-before-christmas-train.php
  • *The Rail Road is also offering a Christmas Feast aboard the Dining Car during this event (for an additional charge): http://www.strasburgrailroad.com/christmas-feast.php
  • Santa’s Paradise Express Santa’s Paradise Express is pulling in to the Strasburg Rail Road to celebrate the Christmas season on November 23-25, December 1-2, 8-9 and 15-16, 2012. This holiday tradition provides a fun, relaxing atmosphere for families as they travel on a 45-minute ride in an authentic vintage steam train. Santa, his helper and musicians stroll from car-to-car, greeting and entertaining children of all ages.  After the train ride, children are treated to storybook readings of holiday classics. Children ages 3 to 11 also receive a gift from Santa and his helper.Event Details: http://strasburgrailroad.com/santas-paradise-express.php
  • Choo Choo Barn’s Holiday Display  Choo Choo Barn is celebrating the season with an enhanced holiday display from November 23 through December 31, 2012. Look for 51 hidden Santas and watch as Santa’s sleigh flies above the gigantic model train display. Enjoy the holiday decorations throughout the display including holiday lights and the snow-covered landscape. Plus, take a close look at the zoo animals in Traintown to see how they’re getting into the holiday spirit! Choo Choo Barn is open daily from 10 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. (Closed Christmas Day). Admission is $7 for adults and $4 for children ages 3-11.  Event details: http://www.choochoobarn.com/holiday/
  • Join the Choo Choo Barn and help the community by participating in Canned Food Fridays. The 24th annual food drive returns to the Choo Choo Barn in Strasburg, PA, on December 7, 14 and 21, 2012 from 10am – 8pm. Admission to the Choo Choo Barn’s 1,700 square foot model train layout is free if you donate at least one non-perishable food item per person. During Canned Food Fridays Choo Choo Barn will feature an enhanced holiday display and kids can search for 51 hidden Santas.
  • Food collected will be donated to the Lampeter United Methodist Church Food Cupboard and the Chester County  Food Bank. After exploring the unique model train display, children are invited to visit with Santa Claus at The Shops of Traintown, from 3pm – to 8pm. After their visit with Santa, children will receive a gift from the Choo Choo Barn and a coupon for a free cookie at Isaac’s Restaurant & Deli in Strasburg.
  • National Christmas Center  This place is a great place to visit with the kids and walk through new and olf tradional christmas.  My kids loved it.   427 Lincoln Highway East (U.S. Rt. 30), Paradise, PA 17562, 717-442-7950
  • Dutch Wonderland has a Christmas display and rides open for the holiday season Open Saturday Nov 30.  Great for little kido’sholiday decor

Atlantic City

  • “Winter Sweet” — a new, family-friendly, nightly outdoor show — will debut on the famed Atlantic City Boardwalk on Saturday, December 1 at 6 p.m
  • “Winter Sweet” debuts as part of a daylong celebration of the holidays in Atlantic City, including the Atlantic City Holiday Parade, the Christmas tree lighting, and other special events. Aiken is appearing courtesy of the Trump Taj Mahal, which presents Clay Aiken’s Joyful Noise Tour 2012 in the Mark G. Estess arena on Saturday, December 1 at 8 p.m.
  •  “Winter Sweet” is free and no tickets are required.

So what are you doing this year?

Real Letters from Santa!

USPS

Is There Really a Santa Claus?

Kids Will Truly Believe When Santa Writes Back

The U.S. Postal Service is helping keep the enchantment of Santa Claus alive with its “Letters From Santa” program. “Letters From Santa” allows a parent, grandparent or any person in a child’s life to mail a letter to their child “From Santa,” postmarked from the North Pole.

 

Here’s how “Letters From Santa” works:

1. Write a letter to your child from Santa Claus and sign it “From Santa.”

2. Insert the letter into an envelope addressed to your child with the return address:

SANTA, NORTH POLE.

3. Ensure a First-Class Mail stamp is affixed to the envelope.

4. Place the envelope into a larger envelope, with appropriate postage, and address the larger envelope to:

 

NORTH POLE POSTMARK

POSTMASTER

4141 POSTMARK DR

ANCHORAGE AK 99530-9998

 

5. Your letter “From Santa” will be mailed back to your child, postmarked from the North Pole.

“Letters From Santa” must be mailed to the Anchorage, AK, postmaster no later than Dec. 10, 2012. Santa’s helpers in Anchorage will take care of the rest.

 

The personalized letters that parents send to their children via the “Letters From Santa” program is different from the historical “Operation Santa” program. In “Operation Santa,” the Postal Service facilitates the matching of customers with letters written to Santa from needy children. Participants in “Operation Santa” help fulfill a child’s dream with a gift and a response letter from Santa. (Customers are not provided the child’s address in the “Operation Santa” program.) The “Letters From Santa” program helps parents fulfill the dreams of their own children.

The Postal Service receives no tax dollars for operating expenses and relies on the sale of postage, products and services to fund its operations.

Follow the Postal Service on www.twitter.com/USPS and at www.facebook.com/USPS

 

I love this idea!  I received from the post office

 

 

Little Passport Review

little_passport_1442Today a Philadelphia MomMixer,  I learned about Little Passport.  Which is a monthly subscription service that you can join  that provided your child with a new travel learning experience delivered right to your mailbox. The main characters of Little Passport  Travels are Sam and Sofia.  They visit the world and share there experience with your child, in the form of activities stores and visually 3d projects.  Little passport has a new USA  version starts at 11.95 a month and features 2 states every month.  Little Passport also have a world version where you child can explore one country every month.

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For the first month, your USA Editionsubscription starts with our Discovery Kit which comes in a custom Sam and Sofia USA Portfolio and includes:

  • An introductory letter from Sam and Sofia
  • USA Field Guide
  • USA Scratch Book
  • USA Wall Map
  • Disposable Camera and Photo Scavenger Hunt

Every month thereafter, your child will visit 2 new states and receive:

  • A 32-page activity-packed journal covering 2 states
  • Stickers
  • Pop-out Models
  • Postcards
  • Access to more information and activities online

The recommended age range for our USA Edition is 7 to 12 years old

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For the first month, your World Edition subscription starts with our Explorer Kit which includes:

  • Fun travel suitcase with an introductory letter from Sam and Sofia
  • World wall map
  • Travel passport
  • Fun stickers
  • Activity sheet
  • Access to online games and activities with our boarding pass

Every month thereafter, your child will receive country-specific packages filled with:

  • Adventure letters from Sam and Sofia
  • Fun souvenirs (Japan sushi eraser, Egypt pyramid dig kit and more!)
  • Stickers for your suitcase, passport and map
  • Photos
  • Activity Sheets
  • Boarding Passes to access more online games and activities

The recommended age range for our World Edition is 5 to 10 years old.

I love the idea of a Little Passport for a gift,  every month you child get a new travel adventure.  I was really impressed with all the materials I was able to review the bight colors and fun activities.  I love the idea the kids building a 3d item in there kit such as a car or a bus. The travel kit provide hours of activities that will expand your childs knowledge of the world. Check out the Little Passport and see if it is a great idea for your kids as it is for mine.

Little Passports

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Cell Phone Safety School : What I learned!

So I was able to attend the AT&T Mobile Safety Webinar  last week I was really surprised by the information AT&T shared with us.   Cell phones are a fact of life.  This past week during the hurricane they have been a life line to people with love ones and connecting with others.   For out children they are also a fact of life. I observed this week how much preteens are tied to there phones.  Which comes to  my concerns with preteen/ teen cell phone use bullying, privacy, texting while driving and others.

AT&T is making the effort to learn about what “wireless safety” means, and share that information with families.

The Mobile Safety program has been established to educate parents on what safety means when it comes to mobile devices, and to provide resources that help parents navigate this day-to-day in their homes.

AT&T conducted a study of 1,000 parents and 500 kids – ages 8-17 – on a variety of topics that relate to mobile phones, devices and other issues.

My son does not have a phone yet.. good to know I am on track the average according to the study the the average age is 12.1 which is where I am finding we are at,  because my son is spending more time away from us.   So the question is smart phone or no smart phone.. they study showed that only 345 of kids have smart phones.  Which took the pressure off me to get a smart phone,  so when they say every kid has a smart phone you can say that is not true.

So what about the “Issues” ?   according to the survey

 What parents are concerned about in their kids’ use of mobile phones:

  • 89% are worried about texting and driving
  • 67% are concerned about bullying text messages
  • 69% are concerned about sexually suggestive messages
  • 77% are worried about their kids receiving calls from unknown numbers.

What we found interesting is how those worries related to what was actually happening, according to kids:

  • Over HALF have been in a car with someone who was texting and driving
  • Over 1 in 5 have received a mean text message
  • Almost half have a friend who received a sexual picture or message
  • 69% have received a call from an unknown number.

So our concerns are real.

  • 53% of kids have been in a motor vehicle with someone who was texting and driving
  • Over 1 in 5 have received a mean or bullying text message from another kid on their mobile phone
  • Almost half (46%) have a friend who has received a message or picture that their parents would not have liked because it was too sexual
  • 69% have answered a call from an unknown number

AT&T also asked kids about the rules they have on their mobile phones. 66% said they do have rules on their phone usage. BUT, 90% said they would be OK with their parents setting rules. What we see there is an opportunity. Some parents might not be setting rules because they don’t think their kids will follow them, and that may not be the case.

Another interesting data point: 93% of kids have rules on their phones at school. So even if they don’t have rules at home – they are used to having them at school, and it could be a smooth transition to implement some of those rules at home.

AT&T also found that 76% of parents say they monitor their kids’ phones. However, only 42% of kids say their parents monitor their phone. A few things could be happening here. Parents may be saying they monitor their kids’ phones, but actually give them more freedom. OR, parents are monitoring their kids’ phones without telling them that they are doing so.

2 of 5 kids say their parents have not talked to them about mobile safety, and they are more likely to have heard from their parents about stranger danger, alcohol and drugs and sex education that these issues. While these are the standard safety issues that kids learn about from their parents and at school, these other issues are a reality for kids in today’s world.

AT&T has put together a variety of resources to help parents. From learning what other families are doing through videos, or downloadable tip sheets, the website at http://www.att.com/familysafety has a wealth of information available to anyone who is interested.

Q&A with Lesley Backus and Whaewon Choi of Fleishman-Hillard, who worked with AT&T to develop the Mobile Safety School program:

 AT&T has a product called Smart Limits for wireless. It’s $4.99 per month, and you can set a monthly limit for the number of text messages you want your child to be able to send.  So if you child is an over texter  this function helps to limit so you do not have huge cell bills

More common phone rule are as follows and I plan on following them with my son.

  • No texting or talking while driving (often it was a family rule, with parents staying off the phone in the car, as well, to set a good example for younger kids).
  • No phones at the dinner table,
  • No phones in the bedroom at night.
  •  There are resources on att.com/familysafety for rules on phones at school, responsible citizenship, new rules to think about as kids graduate to smartphones, etc.
  • Cell phones at school,  they have to follow the schools rules
  • Tip:Some parents will have their kids charge their cell phones in the parents’ bedroom, since often parents think kids are in bed, but they’re texting with friends.

Kids are learning a lot of their behaviors from adults. As parents  need to model good phone behavior for the kids in our lives.

I loved learning about At&T Family Map is an app you can download for your family on your individual phones. You sign up yourself and your family members, and it allows you to log in and see where a particular phone is. If your child is always with their phone and you want to make sure they arrive at a particular destination safely, you can log in and see that phone on a map. You can also set alerts to make sure you check in at specific times.

It allows you to check on your kids without bothering them – avoiding the issue of texting while driving, etc

I really learned a lot from AT&T mobile safety school. I was great to know that other parents are faced with similar issues.

Disclosure: This post was sponsored by AT&T

Hurricane Halloween

kids standing in front of fallen treeThis is a Halloween my kids will never forget. Hurricane Halloween.  This is a tree that fell at a neighbors house,  the family and houses are safe. I hope that all people who are without power and suffering.  Find relief and are able to return home soon.

So here are some pictures of our Hurricane Halloween. girl dressed up as a witch

My son went as Micheal Phelps complete with swim shorts and 21 medals.  This was the easiest costume we Printed out “USA” and cut them out of felt and put them on the back of a Track suit I found at the Thrift store.  Then I printed the medals out and used a hole punch the ribbon was from the craft store and I could reuse the ribbon to tie up bread at Christmas.   The cap I found at a swim store.  Goggles left from the summer.

boy dressed at Micheal PhelpsMy superhero’s   lucky I have a few around super dad

Both the Dogs – Grundy was happy about the food.. dog in a capeLLyod was not happy with a cape he would not look at the camera and he was thrown a little off by the costumesdog in a capeHope you have a happy and safe Halloween!

Link up to AllthingsChic Halloween Costume Carnival

 

7 Good Days- Coping with Psoriasis and Psoriatic Arthritis

canes on the groundCoping with Psoriasis and Psoriatic Arthritis: My husband Jeff was 39 when it happened.  His bio meds started to fail after 3 years of good results.  We were Disney World in Florida the 1st time we went as a family, it was  December 2008. My husbands  arthritis came back with vengeance.   He was on Remicade at the time $3200 per bag of the Biologic Drug to keep the Psoriasis and Psoriatic Arthritis away- Thank god for insurance.  My husband limped through Disney as his joints and muscles ached from the arthritis.

When we got home Jeff went to the Doctor  they decided to up his Remicade and put the treatments closer together. So every 4 weeks Jeff would go for 8 viles of the Drug $5600.  The remicade stops his over active immune system to hopefully slow down the affects of  the arthritis.

At first the drug infusions would last 2 weeks.. then Jeff would suffer for 2 weeks, until he could get another infusion of the drug. During this period we would schedule our family plans during the 2 weeks  knowing  that Jeff would be mobile enough to participate in our family’s lives.

Then the drug only lasted 7 days..

7 good days to be a family not affect by arthritis.

7 good days..  he could spend time going to his kids events.

7 days of living..

….then the other 21 of pain.

Then April came  drug failed and my husband had a reaction and could no longer get a remicade.  He went in to severe allergic reaction while getting his infusion , oxygen was required.

The 7 good days were lost

Jeff was at the end of the arthritis drug list.  He taken everything the doctors had available and built up immunities to all the current drugs.

He was 39.

The true darkness set in.  My husband went in full arthritis mode.  The “dark days”  or months as I like to call them.   Jeff’s arthritis got so bad he could barely walk.  His feet became huge,  he wore slippers 2 sizes to big,  he could not close his hands,and  Jeff could not climb stairs.  His inflammation levels were off the charts.

Jeff dragged himself to work everyday.. which is why I think,  people believed he was ok. The reason Jeff worked, he was paranoid about loosing health insurance.  At no point during “the dark days”  were things ok.. he would parking Handicap (he had a tag at this point) drag his body to the door with a cane, ride the elevator up and sit at his desk all day.  His co-workers assisting and picking everything up from him at his desk.  They watched him suffer too, his smiling personality gone.

Another reason he worked besides the insurance?  Jeff thought he was too young to stop working and go on disability. He wanted to contribute somehow,  he needed a reason to continue,  and providing for us was it … he wanted to live somehow.

Jeff no longer slept in our bed or tuck in his kids since he could not do stairs.

Jeff asked that he no longer drive or watch the kids.  The reason was he could not help or react if something went wrong, he could not save his own children.

He lost 50 pounds because it he could not cut his food and  hurt to eat,  the arthritis was every where.

The cane was in full use to assist him so he did not fall and the walker was ready to go when he needed  it..

He was 39

Arthritis Affects on our Family:

During that time  I was trying to keep everything “normal”.  I went to hockey practice, dance, worked, and more.   I made dinner every night, cleaned,  did everything.  Including taking care of Jeff.   He need help dressing, showering, and in the bathroom.   I did it all like it was ok, Me ..I normally speak up if I am unhappy,  during this time I existed  never saying a word about how terrible it really was, feeling as people never really got it.  I was dieing inside watching him suffer.

During this period as Jeff’s arthritic caregiver  I questioned everything:   My marriage, my family, my friends, our home, and beliefs.

While Jeff was at work ..I would cry and cry, not want him to see the tears.  I hated the feeling I was having 38 years old destine to be a caregiver for this arthritic man with no end in site.  I gained weight 298lb, stopped taking care of myself,  and existed as a mother. I was also diagnosed with diabetes.. the doctor told me with the stress it could have made me flip the switch from borderline to full Diabetes.  It also explained the depression.  Then the guilt of I am not suffering like him.. so it was not ok to feel sad.

My son age 8 at the time .. who was always close to his father felt pushed away he wanted thing to go back to normal.  He wondered if he would get this .. what Daddy had.  He acted up in school and was good at home to not upset is fragile dad and crumbling mother.   He grew up so fast during this time,  he became more responsible.  That is not the way you want your child to be come responsible  because he has to.   His only wish to go camping and fish with his father..

Jeff saying  “Buddy I cant do it.. I cant walk through the woods”

My heart died a little at the little boys request.

My daughter 3 at the time,  begged to sit on her dads lap , but she could not.   Jeff’s arthritis  set into his rib cage, where the tendons meets the bones,  which also made it hard to breath.  His arthritis was in all his tendons making it difficult to be touched.  I watch as Jeff was crushed telling his little girl she could not sit on his lap.

Hope:

One Sunday in June  after 6 months,  I cracked emotional  at church someone asked me how was Jeff, I lost it, Crying in the hall in front of everyone.  I told the truth.. he was not having anymore 7 good days. We were existing.. I was worried about him, our kids, and I was sad.  The people at church stepped up .. they brought meals to us for 2 months.. hope and happiness returned to our lives.

We started seeing  many of the best doctors in the area,  finally a doctor gave him a newly approved  drug.  It took 6 months to work but Jeff got back in to remission.  He has a better diet, reducing stress, and tries to work out. All which help.

Here is the thing it will be back,  I am realistic.  it scares me terrible to go back to those days.. Arthritis always comes back.   It is a good chance my children will get it also.  We need the Arthritis foundation and researchers  to continue to discover relief and cures.   We need more research and more drugs .. because he is only 42 and He has to walk his daughter down the aisle in 20 years..

World Arthritis Day is Tomorrow October 12, 2012. Please help if you can and raise awareness.

 

 

My Observation of Temporary Single Parenting

chocolate cake and a girlMy Observation of Temporary Single Parenting:

Hubby is hunting.. he will be home tonight.. He has only shot 1 deer in the 19 years we have been together (is that what bow hunter call it –  shot but not with a gun) .  I asked him once why he likes to hunt he says he likes the quite of the wood, he never sees a deer.  I think he likes to get away from us  where it is quiet. ..Just a thought.

So hunting =sitting in the woods for 3 days  = result   no deer.

My husband helps alot,  not with the cleaning but with the kids.

Something to be said when he was away the kids are easier. You think it would be easier when he is home 2 against one.   Not for me when my kids don’t have Dad to go to they tend to listen better.. because it is only me.. Yes I am Meany or Tyrant  .. but I become easy going mom..

I also find that I am better parent for the most part.  I yell less and get frustrated less because I am not expecting him to pick up the slack.

Bedtime comes earlier, showers go smother, morning go easier less yelling.   The dishes are usually done because no one else will do them.

I think of the Bill Cosby Skit..

Dad is great he lets us eat chocolate cake but..

instead it is

Mom is great she lets us eat chocolate cake.. I am more fun..

Life runs a little smoother.. because I am not expecting anyone else to help.

Downside

I am tired.. it is exhausting,  I am use to having him here.. he makes me giggle.

Plus have to wipe the bulldogs butt.

Thank God.. He will be home tomorrow.  I hate single Parenting

Teach your Kids to Give back – Little Red Wagon Movie Review

little red wagon movie post

I was fortunate to receive a copy of the Little Red Wagon movie to review.  So last night I sat down with my 7 year old daughter to watch the movie.   The movie is a true story about a 7 year old Zach Bonner  and his family (sister Kelley and mother).  Zach and Kelley start collecting items to help people who were homeless because of hurricane Charley. They use a a little red wagon to collect the supplies.   Then withing a year,  Zach started a non profit,  The Little Red Wagon foundation.  The foundation supplies backpack for homeless children filled with toiletries, food, and a toy.   The story continues when Zach gets the idea to walk to Tallahassee and raise money to help end childhood homelessness.   The story covers the families journey of the walk and growth of the nonprofit.Zack Bonner walking

The director also include a secondary plot of a mother and child entering to to homelessness,  the downward spiral that can occur.   From the family losing there home, to losing a job, losing an apartment, to living in a car, and then finally finding hope.

What I loved about watching the movie with my kids was the questions my daughter and statements made:

Once my daughter saw that Zach go the idea and started collecting,  she stated “Mommy, Zach is a good boy”

Then as the movie continues she asked questions like ” Mommy why are those sleeping people in the gym?”

“Why are those kids outside at night?”

“Mommy Zach is really brave .. that is a long way to walk.. why is he walking”

“Mommy why are there so many kids without homes?”

“How come the mommy and boy are eating out of the garbage?”

My 11 year old son was in the other room doing his homework and he kept on coming in making comments.   He seemed to have a greater understanding of the idea of homelessness.   When the young boy in the movie had to give up his stuff and leave his home..

His comment was “The boy was being selfish not understanding his mom was having a hard time…. Mom the economy sucks”- of course I explained to my son the little boy did not understand and that was party of the story the little boy grew up the hard way.

I have to say his comment did break my heart.  I found a great level of compassion and understanding from my son to the idea of parenting.. Since my husband lost his job sometime ago.. My son does.. get the concept of sacrifice and sometimes things are not always easy.

I can highly recommend this Film! as a great teaching tool and dialogue starter with your kids.  Plus it is a uplifting inspiring movie.

So where can you see the film?

LITTLE RED WAGON, which opens at the Regal Oaks on Friday, October 5th

Disclosure: I did receive this movie to review.  the opinions stated above are completely my own.